I think they probably came up with BFFs because it was fun to say and sounded like secret code. Besides, it's makes you feel special to know that your friend want's to be your friend forever. Dontcha think so?
I think that God designed us to want to have someone special who's close to us. I mean, look back at the creation. God said everything was good until He made man. It wasn't right until Adam had a wife.
Livie, I agree with you. The only thing i don't like about BFF's is when you are with two other friends, and those two other friends are BFF's with each-other, and then you feel a little out of the loop. and then you start to feel awkward, and not wanting to be around them.
Katie, I totally agree with your last comment because I know two girls who are real close and make me feel that way almost everytime we are together. Now I try to avoid having just the 3 of us because I always feel left out. I will admit I have a few BFF's but I NEVER let ANYONE feel left out.
I must say I agree with Livie, but at the same time I agree with Butterfly and Katie, it does get kinda ackward. On one hand, we will find that certain friends are closer to us then others, it's going to happen. The best thing for someone to do who has that kind fo relationship with someone is to try to not make other people feel alone when you and your BFF are together. Make friends with them, and invite them to sit with you at lunch(co-op or school) along with you and your BFF. It doesn't mean that you have to leave your BFF in the dust, but when around other people try to make it less obvious that you two are really close, you can never have too many friends. On the other hand, when your in the opposite position, your job is to not try to snuggle in with the 2. If you are getting pushed away when trying to make friends with someone, maybe God doesn't want you to hang with them. Maybe you should look around and see someone else who really needs a friend, and make friends with them.
I think BFFs are fine, as long as you don't let it make you be snobby to others who want to be friends too.
I think that having BFF'S are fine...just having too many can get out of hand. I think 3 is a little to many...because you can only have 1 TRUE BEST FRIEND.
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I think they probably came up with BFFs because it was fun to say and sounded like secret code. Besides, it's makes you feel special to know that your friend want's to be your friend forever. Dontcha think so?
the kid
Well, I have a whole bunch of BFFS. Cait is my first, my friend Kari is my second, and so on. Those are my really good friends!
natalie
The Kid,
Yea, i agree with you. And trust me, i am not opposed to having BFFs, i was just wondering what everyone else thought.
Katie
Yea I loove Bff's because it helps me know who I know the best and who I don't. Oh and can check out my blog.
Iona
I think that God designed us to want to have someone special who's close to us. I mean, look back at the creation. God said everything was good until He made man. It wasn't right until Adam had a wife.
Livie
Livie,
I agree with you. The only thing i don't like about BFF's is when you are with two other friends, and those two other friends are BFF's with each-other, and then you feel a little out of the loop. and then you start to feel awkward, and not wanting to be around them.
Katie
Katie,
I totally agree with your last comment because I know two girls who are real close and make me feel that way almost everytime we are together. Now I try to avoid having just the 3 of us because I always feel left out. I will admit I have a few BFF's but I NEVER let ANYONE feel left out.
Butterfly
I must say I agree with Livie, but at the same time I agree with Butterfly and Katie, it does get kinda ackward.
On one hand, we will find that certain friends are closer to us then others, it's going to happen. The best thing for someone to do who has that kind fo relationship with someone is to try to not make other people feel alone when you and your BFF are together. Make friends with them, and invite them to sit with you at lunch(co-op or school) along with you and your BFF. It doesn't mean that you have to leave your BFF in the dust, but when around other people try to make it less obvious that you two are really close, you can never have too many friends.
On the other hand,
when your in the opposite position, your job is to not try to snuggle in with the 2. If you are getting pushed away when trying to make friends with someone, maybe God doesn't want you to hang with them. Maybe you should look around and see someone else who really needs a friend, and make friends with them.
I think BFFs are fine, as long as you don't let it make you be snobby to others who want to be friends too.
Hope this helps,
the kid
I think that having BFF'S are fine...just having too many can get out of hand. I think 3 is a little to many...because you can only have 1 TRUE BEST FRIEND.
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